Ten Rules for the New Age
You can obey these Rules and be a good Jew, Christian, Muslim, or Hindu.  
But you can't violate them and be a good human being.


The biblical Ten Commandments were designed to control a nomadic society whose pre-scientific religion included idol worship and blood sacrifice.  The ancient Hebrews owned slaves and fought wars of choice.  Obviously, they needed some basic guidelines for good behavior.

As scientific knowledge transcends any knowledge previously attained by humanity, we enter a New Age.  As people adopt non-tradional religious beliefs, they lose the firm moral foundation provided by the Abrahamaic religions and can sometimes end up adrift in a sea of moral doldrums.  For the past two hundred years, Western thinkers have been testing the philosophies and consequences of the Enlightenment.  The advent of science and the questioning of the basic assumptions of Abrahamaic religious beliefs inevitably resulted in a challenge.  Not only a challenge to the old beliefs, but also a challenge to those who adopted new ones. 

If we jettison traditional beliefs, we need to keep in mind the traditional moral edicts and possibly work them into a new set of rules.   These new rules incorporate those of the biblical commandments that deal with morality.  They don't reference the biblical depiction of God, as we all have different ways of representing that infinite, unknowable, ineffable Entity.  The days of myths, superstitions, and pseudo-truths should be left behind.  It's time for a New Age.


 
Ten Rules for the New Age:
 
According to the Bible, the Ten Commandments were given to the people of Israel directly from the Hand of God .   The TenRules for the New Age  make no such claim.  You will apply your own interpretations, even if I ask you not to.  Such is the nature of the human mind's logic.

Note also that the Ten Rules for the New Age make no claims or assumptions about theology or any other rationale.  They are simply a set of behavioral rules, not a statement of reiligion or philosophy.  These rules are not for the purpose of determining who should be rewarded and who should be punished.  Rather, they are for the purpose of guiding our behavior so that all will benefit.

The Ten Rules do not include or presume any advice for self-improvement.  Some people see behavioral patterns as a kind of pseudo-morality -  things such as being responsible and cleaning your fingernails.  We avoid people who seem offensive or obnoxious.  We turn up our nose at those who talk loudly in a crowded venue.  But those are cultural phenomena, not moral ones.  No life hangs in the balance, no person or animal suffers if a person violates the cultural norms for good behavior.  Not that bad behavior should be condoned.  Put simply, it only becomes relevant to morality when it leads to the violation of one of the Ten Rules.

 

Ten Rules for the New Age

1 - Be reverent!
2 - Respect all living things!
3 - Be kind !
4 - Be honest !
5 - Be non-violent !
6 - Be sexually respectful !
7 - Avoid the deadly sins !
8 - Protect and defend Creation !

9 - Help others !

10 - Don't exploit !

My interpretations:

 

1 - Be reverent !

No life is complete, no soul fulfilled, no heart satisfied unless there is an ongoing communication with the Maker.  You should pray daily, in your own way.  This may be in meditation or in supplication, or simply saying thanks for your life's bounty.  It can be in the morning, at the dinner table, or in the evening.  Just do it.

Reverence also leads to all of the other rules, and is therefore the first.

 

2 - Respect all living things !

Life is precious.  No person should take life.  No living thing should be condemned for doing what comes naturally to its species.  No living thing should be denied access to a habitat conducive to its health.  No living thing should be exploited to its detriment.  

Some people will want to draw a line.  Above the line, living things are respected, below the line they are exploited.  Is harvesting of grains exploitation?  Of course.  So maybe you'll exclude all plants from the above strictures.  Perhaps if you're afraid of them, you'll exclude spiders and snakes.  Perhaps you'll exclude domesticated animals.  Where you draw the line is up to you.  However, the lower you draw the line, the more living things you are respectful of.

Nobody draws the line at people.  Therefore, don't kill any unborn child that you believe to be a viable human being.

This rule leads to all the remaining ones, and therefore is second.

 

3 - Be kind !

Treat others the way you would want to be treated in the same situation.

It really is that simple.  In the Rules for the New Age there is no such concept as "deserve".  No one is to be treated differently based on some set ot circumstances, prior behavior, religious viewpoint, political affiliation, or qualities attributed to them by others.  A person is a person, and all people deserve the same respect.  

 

4 - Be honest !

Don't lie, cheat or steal.

Misleading is lying.  If you cause another person to believe something that is not true, then you have lied.  Some people would say that it is the other person's fault for making the false assumption.  I would say that leading person to a place where they are likely to make the false assumption is dishonest.

We all keep secrets.  It's human.  We rationalize this by saying that the end justifies the means.  Use your own best judgment.  In the end, we each must take responsibility for our actions.

 

5 - Be non-violent !

Don't hurt any animal.

Don't be overcome with anger.  Anger leads to violence,  and violence begets violence.  Vengeance begets vengeance.

Aggression is the number one problem in the history of humanity.  Most problems can be solved through negotiation and worsened by aggressive behavior.  It takes quite a bit of will power to hold back when threatened and seek the more peaceful course, but the rewards are definitely worth the effort.

Does this mean that one should not act in self-defense?  No.  Self defense is a natural instinctive behavior in reaction to another person who is violating multiple rules.  My opinion is that the situation will vary and the intensity of the self defense should be the least amount appropriate to the situation.  Preemptive action is not self defense.  Vigilantism Is not self-defense.  Vengeance is not self defense.

 

6 - Be sexually respectful !

The biblical Ten Commandments are strangely silent on this issue.

Rape is an act of violence that manifests a deep disrespect for the person being raped.  So is any sexual crime against children.   Violence against a person who has a different sexual preference than you is a crime of hatred.  These three categories of act violate the rules of non-violence and kindness in addition to violating the sexual rights of the victims.

Some say prostitution. is a victimless crime.  But the fact is that prostitutes are exploited not just by their customers but by the pimps who control them.  There can be no question that soliciting prostitution is a violation of this rule. 

The crimes named in the preceding paragraphs have been going on for as long as there were humans.  It's time now to end them.

See also rule 10.

 

7 - Avoid the deadly sins !

Those are anger, greed, envy, and gluttony.  Actually, there are seven, but that's too many to remember.  The Catholic guy in Rome who invented these sins intended to steer his flock away from those things which would get in the way of their reverence for life and Creation.  The sins are not enumerated in the Bible, and therefore they are not part of the standard Christian religion, but they are part of the Christian cultural heritage.  If you must insist on knowing what the other three are, they are sloth, lust, and pride.

To these I would add arrogance.

 

8 - Protect and defend Creation !

We are only the most recent inhabitants of the Earth, not its owners.  We should make sure that the Earth survives in its pristine glory for the next generation and for the next master species.  God didn't create the universe so that we could use it up.    It's okay to play and have fun but don't destroy it.

The Earth is finite.  The human species is growing ever more numerous.  Our footprints on this planted grow ever larger.  We must take steps to prevent the destruction of our planet Eden.

The recent and ongoing extinction of thousands of species, the warming climate and diminishing ozone layer, the increasing worldwide pollution of groundwater and air, all belie the violation of this rule by all nations of the world.

 

9 - Help the less fortunate, the weak, the poor, and the vulnerable !

People need help.  If you would ask any person whether their child, sibling, spouse or parent needs help, the answer would always be yes.

Of course that includes you.  But you're not the only person in the world whose family has problems.  Spend some time learning about and helping other people with problems.  It will be good for your soul.  

A time tithe is a healthy component of a person's life.  Some people devote their lives to helping others, some give only an occasional hour.  But regardless of the amount, try to spend some time helping others, both in and outside of your family.

Some people in every society have far more material wealth and possessions than the poorest in that same society.  This is wrong.   No philosophy or rationale can excuse a person who does not share the wealth.  Taking this viewpoint a step further, there are some countries that have far more material wealth and possessions than the world's poorest countries.  That is wrong.  No philosophy or rationale can excuse a country that hogs the world's resources.  Does this mean that every person in the world deserves to share in the Earth's bounty?  Yes.  Does it mean that those who work hard should not benefit from their labors?  No.  There must be a fair and reasonable distribution based on various societal value systems.  But a fair system would not allow millionaires to walk past beggars on their way to the festivities.  

 

10 - Don't exploit !

Don't take advantage of another person's .lesser power for your personal benefit.  Your superior power might be due to knowledge, intelligence, or social station, to give some examples.

Cheating includes the act of exploiting or taking advantage of another person's lack of knowledge, education, or power to make gains that you otherwise would not have been able to get.

Own no slaves.  Slavery is an extreme form of exploitation, because the person is not compensated, and their freedom is taken away.  Throughout the last 3000 years, people have owned slaves.

The smallest forms of exploitation may seem harmless - you're at a flea market and a silver chalice is offered for 50 cents.  You recognize it as an antique worth hundreds of dollars, but you fail to inform the seller.  You pay 50 cents, thus robbing the seller.  

Sellers of liquor and drugs, as well as gambling houses all exploit the consumers.

Extraction industries exploit Creation, using up resources that can never be replaced, and leaving destruction and devastated habitats in their wake.  Mining is particularly egregious, as are the filling in of wetlands and the clear-cutting of forests.  Since Nature can't be compensated for the extraction of limited resources, care must be taken to ensure that it is not damaged in the process.  I would suggest that rule 8 should be followed.

Two perennially exploited groups of people have been children and women.  Since they are less powerful, they can't fight back or protect themselves.

 

Important traits that make character

1 - Integrity

When your principles are unbending, then you have integrity.  Sometimes, when a person knows they won't be held accountable, they follow different rules, and act differently.  Sometimes this surprises them, sometimes not.  

2 - Honesty

Wwhen you go out of your way not to mislead others, when you are forthright, you are acting honestly.  You say what you'll do and do what you say.

3 - Discipline

Nothing slides uphill.  Discipline is the means by which a person mixes business and pleasure, allowing time for each in the day's activities.  Many things we do every day are less pleasant - brushing teeth, shiniing shoes, making the bed... We each need to make a list, at least mentally, of those things that need doing and make sure they get done in a timely manner.  Once this trick is learned, it can be applied to pursuits such as learning a new skill or dieting to lose weight.

4 - Cleanliness

A person should be clean in their body, house, vehicle, etc.

5 - Punctuality

Being on time shows others that you respect others.  Being late shows the opposite.

6 - Tenacity

Nothing is ever achieved in a day.  To accomplish great things often takes years and often requires labor that is not rewarded by friends or family patting you on the back.  Knowing where you want to go and going there regardless of the odds is a trait common to all successful people.  Stay focused on the desired end result,  Ask yourself, "is this activity getting me there?".  Then you will stay on course over the long haul.

7 - Work ethic

Anything worth doing is worth doing well and doing to completion.  The less you do, the less you accomplish.

8 - Reliability

When you can be counted on to keep the promises and fulfill the commitments you've made, then you are reliable.

9 - Trustworthiness

Similar to reliability, trustworthiness applies reliability to other realms of endeavor.  An example is cofidences.  When a secret is given to you in confidence, the person who gave you that secret is its owner.  Only if the secret reveals a legal violation should that confidence be broken.  When a person no longer trusts you, nothing you can say or do will bring that trust back.

11 - Courtesy

Courtesy is a few simple rules of conduct that allow us to not ruffle each others' feathers.  For instance, drivers are courteous to each other, especially during rush hour.

10 - Respect

Respect for those who went before you, those who are wiser, more experienced, less able, less fortunate.  Respect is giving others deference.

12 - Loyalty

Loyalty to friends and family is basically assumed.  One who is disloyal is pretty much condemned by most people. However, you have to choose to whom you will give your loaylty - the ruling party or the opposition; the church or the law; your family or your spouse.  You have to make a choice and live with it.  People who leave the fold, even if they are welcomed into a different group, are considered by the group they came from as traitors, turncoats, Benedict Arnolds.